When Good Things Go Bad

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Written By Christiana Gaudet

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It's a scenario we’ve all encountered. A once delightful friendship, job, living situation, or relationship can unexpectedly morph from being one of life's greatest joys into one of its most challenging trials.

This can happen for many different reasons. Sometimes, it is something outside our control, like an unexpected tragedy. Sometimes, this shift occurs because we finally step away from our denial and accept the truth we should have seen all along. Those are not the unfortunate situations I want to focus on this week.

I am thinking about situations where something that used to work well stops working for no apparent reason or because of a simple change we can’t undo. This can be problematic and confusing when it happens!

The first step in dealing with such a situation is to avoid catastrophizing it. Sometimes, energies ebb and flow. It is possible that if you are patient, things will naturally fall back into a happy balance.

If that happy balance does not return, you will have to take steps to evaluate your situation and find a response. Here, it is essential to avoid blaming yourself or others. It is also important to understand that some things have an expiry date. We may grieve and regret them, but we can’t change them.

It is usually bittersweet when we finally put closure to that good thing that went bad. But if we can walk away with some good lessons and memories, we can walk away with a bit of gratitude along with the grief.

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Exhibitors at StaarCon 2023.

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Is This Fixable?

When something good goes wrong, we often turn to the cards. We ask questions like “What happened to create this change?” and “Did I make a mistake?

Those are great questions. Yet sometimes, we forget to ask the most important questions: “Where are we now?” and “Is this fixable?”

If we determine a path toward improvement, further questioning of the cards can help us find a strategy.

Only then might we look for a prediction on the outcome.

If we determine that there is no path forward, we can ask the cards to help us find our best and healthiest exit strategy.

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From Around the Web

This wonderful interview with Appalachian witch,  tarot reader, and author Byron Ballard was recently re-air on Public Radio.

Artnet has shared an article about an interesting tarot-inspired gallery art project in Copenhagen.

I love many of the offerings at labyrinthos.co. Here is a post from earlier in the year by Tina Gong. She shares a series of spreads to use when relationships go wrong.

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Making Magic

Some people use magic every day. For example, we might use glamour magic when getting ready for work or protection magic on our commute. These daily rituals help us focus and create the best possible outcomes each day.

There is also the magic we do when something goes wrong. We quickly want to mitigate damage and support the best possible outcomes.

My favorite way to do this is with tarot.

Find which cards represent the current situation. Then, find cards that represent the best possible outcome.

Lay out the cards on a table or altar. One by one, turn face down the cards whose energy you want to mitigate. Turn face up the cards whose energy you want to manifest. With each card, state aloud its purpose in your magic.

I have used this technique with significant success over the years. Try it the next time you need some extra magical support in your life.

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Christiana Gaudet

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Tarot Topics Newsletter
Volume 7 Issue 19
May 8, 2024

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Christiana Gaudet

Christiana has been a full-time tarot professional for more than twenty years, and is the author of two books about tarot. In 2008, Christiana was granted the title of Tarot Grandmaster by the Tarot Certification Board of America. Christiana provides readings by phone, Facetime and Skype, and in her office in Palm City, Florida.

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